you keep me coming home again http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com Thu, 09 Sep 2010 11:12:10 +0100 FeedCreator 1.7.2 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1216 This is the limit! You are simply demeaning other women for getting married and raising kids as women always have done just to champion your own selfish hedonistic ways. I\'ll have you know that I have 3 grandchildren and I turned 55 last October but I still keep my man fully occupied in bed and he hasnt strayed yet and we still find time to ride across the desert in our leathers and catch the Eagles in concert. Lets see how connected you are 20 or 30 years down the road . MarinCountyHealer Thu, 01 Jan 2009 03:13:35 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1217 Dear Light worker Healer: I\'m so psychic, the other admin is gonna have a laugh. When we were discussing using this pic for our next blog I told him, \"I bet that woman form marin county is gonna jump all over it.\" This is just getting too predictable. I know it seems like we\'re trying to make people angry, but we just follow our own evolutionary compass when working with this site, and [b]it\'s becoming very apparent that our consistent methods of logic really piss people off![/b] In 20 or 30 years I will look back and thank the universe for bringing a wide variety of men into my life, I\'m so grateful every time I get the chance to learn more about the hearts and minds of men, and you can learn an awful lot about people when you don\'t keep them in a cage, or demand that they submit to domestic compliance. [b]No one ever said that human nature is compatible with any of the limited laws of human consciousness.[/b] autotelic Thu, 01 Jan 2009 13:58:09 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1218 I\'ve been a trucker for as long as I care to remember and I\'ve noticed the increasing number of people and couples of a certain age doing the designer lifestyle black leather rebel motorcycle club thing. But you know what I notice most, that while the guys get off on the machismo of roaring around on state of the art Harleys the women , who manage to look at least a good ten years younger than their menfolk , strut their shit for all to see at gas stations and motel parking lots. You can bulshit other women but dont try it on with me. You know exactly what that pic is about . Frank Thu, 01 Jan 2009 04:06:09 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1219 this doesn\'t have to be a controversial conversation, no one has to get angry, most people that enter into marriage will always have doubts about whether they can completely trust their partner indefinitely, marriage asks too much of people, people fall in love, they fall out of love, people do change, and their partners change, people very rarely change together though. I suppose many people know this (in the unconscious) when they go into marriage, but often they\'re too afraid to talk about it with one another, because they have taken on these vows, vows that defy nature and logic. I\'m just a little surprised when people say that they never saw the end in sight, when all along their biggest secret fear has been that their partner might leave them one day. So many married people live in constant fear. A recently divorced woman told me that marriage is not a way to stabilize mental health, she said that marriage is the ultimate challenge to mental health. I very strongly believe that marriage is a form of severe oppression. If I thought that it really made people happy I would never say this, because oppression is a word that should never be used without good reason. Thu, 01 Jan 2009 05:14:10 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1220 who was it, Johnny Mathis, that sang that song \'Baby Baby Don\'t Get Hooked On Me\'? If you listen to those lyrics closely, you might be shocked at how subversive that song is. No one ever thought to hang him up in the town square for writing a pop song about how impossible relationships are, so please, understand, we\'re not trying to piss anyone off, it would be a lot less tense around here if people were just naturally capable of digesting our abrasive delivery, because we aren\'t capable of making this material more palatable. admin #2 Thu, 01 Jan 2009 05:41:19 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1221 it was mac davis that sang the song \'baby baby don\'t get hooked on me\' Thu, 01 Jan 2009 05:47:40 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1222 Damn! I wrote a long post and it vanished! The gist of it was I think there is a controversy lurking in the background here as death awareness within marriage and similar monogamous longterm term relationships disproportionately negatively impacts on women as they are up against their biological clock and related cultural preferences /pressures around their desirability/use value. It\'s right there in \'baby baby don\'t get hooked on me\' too as the lyric could sum up the relational strategy of a man of any age whereas the use of terms like girl, baby and hot blooded woman-child \' give the bigger game away , investment for the woman is driven by \'hot blooded\' biology, is time critical and a far more riskier proposition, including maternal mortality which is currently increasing in the US. For the woman who passes on reproduction there is no rationale for marriage or a long-term relationship unless she just feels compelled to mimic the wider culture and/or believes she must sacrifice her autonomy to be set free. Dr Zack Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:36:24 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1223 Perhaps we should start teaching children that relationships arent for ever - either that or simply stop having kids to reduce human unhappiness and disappointment. Sy Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:44:55 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1224 just think of all the love songs that have inspired people to believe in the institution of marriage, often these songs take on an entirely new meaning when we\'re in the exciting stages of a new relationship, when we get \"hooked\" on love songs, we\'re submitting to the myth of together forever with one person, I don\'t think it\'s a stretch to call it a voluntary form of brainwashing. what are most people really looking for, on the most basic, primal level? Great sex (call it mystical lovemaking) with someone that doesn\'t want to oppress us. Some of the most meaningless sex takes place between people that are in a contracted relationship, a year into the union, people often have to fantasize about someone other than their partner in order to climax....but, most would concur, it\'s better than no sex at all. And that\'s why many relationship authors concur that marriage is much more suitable for men than women. Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:45:19 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1225 Hi, I live in the Atlanta area , work in retail management and I\'m open for the sort of relationship you girls are promoting here and really identify with your posts as my wife of 15 years was incredibly negating and oppressive and I finally just had to tell her no more my freedom comes first. I have the kids now every other weekend but that\'s negotioable . I can accomodate or travel. I\'ve left my e-mail with admin if any of you are interested. Bob GeorgiaBoy Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:54:53 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1226 thank you Sy, your semantics are vivid, you always say so much in just a few sentences. I\'m just wondering if the Marin County Healer were to meet Mac Davis at a party, if she would question him about writing such a cynical song, that song is a fucking dream crusher for women that want to breed. Can\'t you picture certain types of women listening to that song, crying, getting angry, stomping their feet, and huffing away declaring, \"HOW DARE HE! HOW DARE HE!\" Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:56:15 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1227 I\'m involved in a lot of meaningless sex with me on the other hand I embraced alcoholism to liberate myself from my last long term relationship. Bob are you Bi by any chance? Frank Thu, 01 Jan 2009 15:58:05 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1228 maybe we should use one of my older paintings for the next blog, it\'s entitled \'Inactive Hedonist\' We\'ve all had such a hard time with dating sites, maybe, just maybe, we can establish some potential hook ups here, I don\'t know why we never thought about this before. autotelic Thu, 01 Jan 2009 16:02:41 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1229 Yeah, I can just see the Marin Healer running a campaign against artists and labels that lead impressionable youngsters to question the happy families ever after fantasy. I can also envision her banging a tambourine along to a song about Free Love in the late 60\'s with a stomach bulging with screaming life. Sy Thu, 01 Jan 2009 16:16:31 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1230 \"Lapsed Ascetic seeks Inactive Hedonist for brief doomed but possibly mutually liberating experience. Non smoker preferred\'. Craig Thu, 01 Jan 2009 17:54:53 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1231 the people that manipulate this website with their propaganda are working with faulty logic, and they are doing a very good job of living up to all the stereotypes that I\'ve ever had of people that are severely ill in mind, body and soul. I don\'t understand this philosophy. It\'s just so sickening and anti-life. My informed conclusion is that all of your rationalizations about everything indicate that you shouldn\'t even be on this planet, you\'re breathing the air that is designed for those that are truly deserving of it.....the rest of us, that love life and aren\'t afraid of intimacy. How can you even call yourselves humanists? Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:04:07 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1232 Oh come on Anonymous its not as if we\'re trying to brainwash everyone into annihilating their will to live. Dont you have a sense of humour? Sy Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:40:29 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1233 hedonism is anti life? you\'ve got some explaining to do vinny Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:38:48 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1234 Anonymous , when was the last time you masturbated to a fantasy about your wife? Frank Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:46:40 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1235 I dont see much evidence that people love life, I see a lot of evidence of destructive human behaviour threatening all life on the planet so what does that say about the collective mind, body and soul of humanity buddy? What kind of collective fucking steretype are we projecting? Adam Fri, 02 Jan 2009 01:55:20 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1238 we are the great despisers that Nietzsche spoke about, yes we really exist, and now you have proof of it....stay tuned and come visit us often. I\'m starting to wonder if The New Age Movement is responsible for all the trouble in the world. jillian Fri, 02 Jan 2009 02:23:47 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1242 \"your observations about the human condition mean nothing to those of us that are really living.\" If the majority of humanity were really living in the positive way you imply our lifestyles wouldnt be having such a catastrophic effect on the environment and other species living on the planet. Dr Zack Fri, 02 Jan 2009 11:49:21 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1244 On the Blow Job Question - how on earth did Marx and the Revolutionary Left overlook this one? - the happy whore probably give a better blow job and value for money than the helpless wife , I think. Frank Fri, 02 Jan 2009 12:23:41 +0100 http://www.lifeisbrutallyunfair.com/content/view/299/#josc1257 who\'s still laughing? anyone? guess what? I have recently discovered that community is one of my least favorite words. The Churl That Runs This Websi Sat, 03 Jan 2009 04:09:38 +0100